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Tuesday, February 4, 2025

Being Henry: The Fonz...and Beyond

     This Fonz was supposed to be a knockabout guy, a man of few words, rough around the edges. Confident. A guy who could make things happen with a snap of his fingers. If this wasn't the diametric opposite of who I was in the fall of 1973, it was pretty close. I was twenty-seven years old, a short Jew from New York City with a unibrow and hair down to my shoulders, confident about next to nothing in my life.
    The one exception was when I was acting.
    When I was on stage, playing someone else, I was transported to another world, one where pretending made you successful. What I was miserable at was being myself. 



My thoughts:  I was too little to watch Happy Days when it first aired, but when it went into reruns I watched it for one reason: The Fonz. He was always my favorite character. Which made Henry Winkler one of my favorite actors. And his memoir is full of humorous candor and charm.  He tells about his foibles and flaws, his struggles with anxiety, and his severe dyslexia and how he nearly flunked out of high school because of it. He talks about getting into Yale's School of Drama and his love of acting onstage with an ensemble. And how he made the leap from New York to California and landed the role of the Fonz on only his second audition in L.A. A role that changed his life.

I had fun reading about Henry's life and his love not only for acting, but for his wife and kids, his friends, his dogs...and fly-fishing. I related to his fears and insecurities. And I loved his honesty and humor. This memoir is conversational, personable, and as entertaining as Henry Winkler himself. 

Favorite quote:  "...you really don't know what you can accomplish until you try. All you have to do is try. And you will amaze yourself. So simple. But so crucial. And so true."

Happy Reading!


Saturday, February 1, 2025

Randonmness...

 Recently finished reading:  South of the Buttonwood Tree by Heather Webber


Beautifully written, this magical 5-star novel will tug at your heart.

My favorite quote from it:  "Stand in your own light, Blue Bishop. Stand strong. ...Opening yourself up, being you, is the only way to get what you want most in the world."

It reminded me of this sage advice from Vol. 5 of Emma M. Lion's Unselected Journals written by Beth Brower:  "...be wise, and good, and true to the beatings of your own heart..."

Yesterday's library haul:

Being Henry: The Fonz...and Beyond by Henry Winkler
Spare Change by Bette Lee Crosby
A Quantum Love Story by Mike Chen
49 Miles Alone by Natalie D. Richards
Riverbend Gap by Denise Hunter
Duchess Material by Emily Sullivan
Home Sweet Homicide by Craig Rice
Coming Out as Dalit by Yashica Dutt
Red String Theory by Lauren Kung Jessen


And, channeling my inner Pollyanna, here are some of the things that made me glad last month:
  • A fun game day with some friends where I learned to play Canvas and Skyjo.
  • Then, at my family's monthly game night, I got to play Dominion with my nephews & nieces, which was fun even though I came in last every time.  
  • I saw a Spotted Towhee in my backyard! I love these birds, but I usually only see them when I'm out hiking.
  • I've been listening to and loving Teddy Swims' album I've tried Everything but Therapy...
  • And I'm always very glad when cold & gloomy January finally ends because that means I'm one month closer to warmer weather.
What's been making you glad lately?