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Tuesday, March 24, 2026

My Friends by Fredrik Backman

 "...his voice is both exultant and sad. Both happy and unhappy. Because it's that sort of story, with that sort of ending."



I was not planning on reading this book. It wasn't even on my TBR list. But then my co-worker, Leigh, raved about it, said I had to read it, even brought me her copy to borrow. So I very reluctantly took it home. But once I started it, I did not want it to end. It's the loveliest of books: poignant, heartbreaking at times, but heartwarming, too, lyrical, captivating, endearing, and utterly unforgettable. 

It's a book about four friends one very memorable summer, a painting that changes everyone, and a girl. And it's so much more! It's a coming of age book about friendship and love, art, life, desperation, hope, grief, beauty, laughter, daring to dream and finding family. 

It made me laugh.
And it made me cry.

There were parts so good I had to go back and read them a second time. I loved these characters and their profound friendships. I loved their triumphs and their struggles. Most of all, I loved the beautiful prose. There's truth and beauty in this book. And it will definitely be at the top of my favorites list this year.

"The world is full of miracles, but none greater than how far a young person can be carried by someone else's belief in them."

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39 comments:

  1. I still have not tried a book by him

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    1. This is the very first book by him that I've read. But after loving this one so much, I might try one of his others.

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  2. I've heard nothing but great things about this book, one of these days I will read it😁

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    1. It's a good one. I owe my co-worker cookies or something for 'making' me read it. ;D

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  3. The made me cry part always makes me hesitate to pick his books up! Everything I've read about them make them sound amazing but like you're going to cry reading them.

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    1. There are some sad moments that made me tear up, but also some heartwarming happy moments. It's not a sad book. Just emotional at times.

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  4. It's awesome when a book can surprise you like that! I'm adding this one to my list now. Great review, Lark! :D

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  5. I've greatly enjoyed other Backman books so I'll definitely be adding this one to my read list.

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    1. Which of his other books is your favorite?

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  6. My book group chose to read this one this summer. I've enjoyed a few of Backman's books, so I'm hoping this is another winner.

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    1. It's my first book of his, but I loved it. I hope you do, too. And it's a good choice for a book club. Lots to think about.

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  7. Fabulous review! Glad you enjoyed it, especially since you didn't want to read it. Those are the best treasures.

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    1. It was a nice moment of bookish serendipity. :D

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  8. This book was a slow starter for me but I liked it once I got going.

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    1. It was a little hard for me to get used to the way he writes and how his characters narrate the story, so I get that.

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  9. I love it when a book takes me by surprise like this one did for you! I need to read more by this author!

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    1. After liking this book so much, I definitely want to read more by this author now, too. :D

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  10. Love the quote.
    rsrue.blogspot.com

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  11. I think it was book of the year last year on Goodreads. You make it sound excellent. I have read his novel Beartown .... so I will add this. thx ... glad you came upon it.

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    1. Beartown is one that I'd like to read. Maybe next.

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  12. Hugely popular author but I've not read anything by him either. I probably ought to.

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    1. This is the first book by him that I've ever read. Though I have seen the movie they made of A Man Called Ove with Tom Hanks which I really enjoyed.

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  13. Fredrik Backman has become one of my go-to authors because he has never let me down. I’ve read most of what he’s published in this country, and I’ve really enjoyed all of them. I’ve got a copy of My Friends but I’ve been saving it for later - just in case I need something guaranteed to break me out of a reading slump. If you like this one, check out My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry from 2013. I loved that one.

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    1. That's good to know. I've been trying to figure out which of his books I'd like to read next. Knowing you loved My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry tells me to move that one up to the top spot on my list. :D

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  14. You've tempted me with this one. I really enjoyed A Man Called Ove when I read it a few years ago.

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    1. I love the movie they made of that book with Tom Hanks, but I haven't read it. Yet. I do want to though. :D

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  15. I've heard this sentiment echoed about Backman over and over, and now that you're saying it too, I have to believe its true. I have A Man Called Ove on my shelf, so I might have to start there.

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    1. I've heard good things about that one. I did like the movie they made of it, but I haven't read it. But I think I want to now. This book really surprised me in a good way.

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  16. I read Beartown which was so good. And I agree Backman does so well with characters. I want to read more by him but every time I search him out on libby his books have a waiting list months long. The sign of an excellent writer.

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    1. His books are very popular. Beartown is one I really want to read.

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  17. Wow--that is a rave review. I will check it out--probably literally from my library.

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  18. I'm so glad you loved it! I did too. It was beautiful and funny and deep, and so emotional. What a masterpiece!

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    1. It was beautiful and funny and deep! And so so good.

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  19. I've heard this is a good one so I'm glad you enjoyed it!

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    1. It surprised me how much I ended up loving it.

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