Tuesday, February 4, 2025

Being Henry: The Fonz...and Beyond

     This Fonz was supposed to be a knockabout guy, a man of few words, rough around the edges. Confident. A guy who could make things happen with a snap of his fingers. If this wasn't the diametric opposite of who I was in the fall of 1973, it was pretty close. I was twenty-seven years old, a short Jew from New York City with a unibrow and hair down to my shoulders, confident about next to nothing in my life.
    The one exception was when I was acting.
    When I was on stage, playing someone else, I was transported to another world, one where pretending made you successful. What I was miserable at was being myself. 



My thoughts:  I was too little to watch Happy Days when it first aired, but when it went into reruns I watched it for one reason: The Fonz. He was always my favorite character. Which made Henry Winkler one of my favorite actors. And his memoir is full of humorous candor and charm.  He tells about his foibles and flaws, his struggles with anxiety, and his severe dyslexia and how he nearly flunked out of high school because of it. He talks about getting into Yale's School of Drama and his love of acting onstage with an ensemble. And how he made the leap from New York to California and landed the role of the Fonz on only his second audition in L.A. A role that changed his life.

I had fun reading about Henry's life and his love not only for acting, but for his wife and kids, his friends, his dogs...and fly-fishing. I related to his fears and insecurities. And I loved his honesty and humor. This memoir is conversational, personable, and as entertaining as Henry Winkler himself. 

Favorite quote:  "...you really don't know what you can accomplish until you try. All you have to do is try. And you will amaze yourself. So simple. But so crucial. And so true."

Happy Reading!


23 comments:

  1. The Fonz - definitely brings back memories. And I was old enough to watch it in 'real' time. Ha!

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    1. It's a show that makes you smile. I wish there was more fun TV like that on now.

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  2. I loved The Fonz. Happy Days was a fun show to watch.

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    1. It was a fun show! I wish it was still on.

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  3. Oh, I want to read this. I remember watching Happy Days in real time, though probably not from the first season.

    He was short?! But he seemed so larger than life!

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    1. I didn't realize he was short, either. But apparently he is.

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  4. This sounds like a wonderful memoir! I watched the reruns of Happy Days too and loved the show. The Fonz was my favorite. Great review, Lark! :)

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    1. I think the Fonz was everyone's favorite! :D

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  5. Like you, I watched "Happy Days" reruns and loved the Fonz. He was a great character and Henry made him real.

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    1. Henry did make him come to life; he's the most memorable character there is imo. :D

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  6. I watched this as a little kid as reruns, too. The Fonz was such a fun character! I didn't know Winkler went to Yale's School of Drama! Glad to hear his story was an enjoyable one! :)

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    1. It was really fun, and he's so open and honest. I appreciated that.

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  7. Sounds like a fun memoir--I watched the Fonz in real time back when Happy Days was the new show on TV and loved it and him!

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  8. I liked the Fonz too and Henry Winkler memoir sounds really honest, funny and relatable. That must have been very difficult to have dyslexia back in the 1950's and 1960's when Henry was a kid because no one knew to look for it. Now they do and schools have all kinds of ways of making reading easier for dyslexic kids but back then Henry must have struggled and he overcame so many challenges.

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    1. He says in his book he didn't even realize he had dyslexia until he was 34...before that he just figured he couldn't read because he was dumb...which is what his parents used to tell him. Sad, huh?

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  9. I liked the Fonz as well! I am glad the book was good ;)

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  10. I was too young too but I did watch a few when it was on reruns. This sounds so good! I'll have to pick up this memoir.

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  11. I loved this book. I listened to the audiobook version, and he was very entertaining. Happy Tuesday!

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  12. Oh, this sounds wonderful! I'm old enough to have watched Happy Days way back when :) and I always loved the Fonz!

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  13. Wow, great quotes from 'The Fonz".... Henry Winkler's memoir sounds amazing!

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