Thursday, February 25, 2021

The Girl With the Louding Voice by Abi Dare

 Adunni is a fourteen-year-old girl who lives in a small village in Nigeria. Her mother is dead, and her father has just arranged a marriage for her with a much older man who already has two wives. The man wants a son and Adunni's father wants the money her bride-price will bring. What does Adunni want?
"My heart is starting to break because I am only fourteen going fifteen and I am not marrying any foolish stupid old man because I am wanting to go back to school and learn teacher work and become a adult woman....I don't want to marry any mens or any boys or any other person forever....That day, I tell myself that even if I am not getting anything in this life, I will go to school. I will finish my primary and secondary and university schooling and become a teacher because I don't just want to be having any kind voice....I want a louding voice."

But Adunni's journey isn't easy. First she's sold as a wife to Morufu, then as a domestic servant to a wealthy household in Lagos where she's not treated very well. Despite the struggle of being a young girl in a country that doesn't seem to value her, she meets a few kind people along the way who offer help and encouragement. Kofi, the chef at Big Madam's, tells her about a scholarship that would enable her to continue her schooling; and Tia, a wealthy London-educated neighbor, agrees to help her with her English and her scholarship essay. Even with their help, life for Adunni is still a struggle. But she never gives up on her dream. I loved that about her.
"A day will come when my voice will sound so loud all over Nigeria and the world of it, when I will be able to make a way for other girls to have their own louding voices.... A day will come...."
Girls in Nigeria don't seem to have a voice when it comes to making decisions about their own lives, which makes this coming-of-age story such a compelling one. I really liked Adunni's 'louding' voice and I think Abi Dare is a remarkable writer. I'm so glad she highlights the plight of Nigerian girls like Adunni in this book, how so many are devalued unless they're married, and how men often seem to think they can use them for their own pleasure and then toss them aside. I find it heartbreaking that there are still cultures in the world today where marrying off young girls is more important than educating them. I hope books like this one help change that someday.

Happy Reading!

Melody and I read this one together--which always makes a book more fun! Check out her questions to me below, then go check out her review of this captivating book. 

Melody's questions to me:
Q. What do you think of Khadija's death and Bamidele running off from his deeds and responsibilities? In your view, do you think there's closure to this case? 
A. Khadija's death was so senseless and unnecessary it broke my heart. The fact that she felt her future (and her family's dependence on her husband for food) was at risk if she didn't give him a son made her do something stupid, and she paid for it with her life. I'm not surprised her lover Bamidele ran off and left her to die. And the fact that he'll never have to pay for his part in her death is just another example of how unvalued women are in certain parts of the world. 

Q. Why do you think Ms. Tia wants to help Adunni and what have they learned from each other through their own issues? 
A. I think Tia is the kind of person who wants to make a difference in the world and who genuinely tries to be a good person, and that's why she talked to Adunni in the first place and agreed to help her learn better English. Also, having grown up in England, I think Tia saw Adunni not just as a maid, but as a real person when the other Nigerian women just dismissed her. But I think Tia's the one who ended up learning more about life, and what's truly important, from the time she spent with Adunni than anything Adunni learned from her. But I did really like their friendship. 


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26 comments:

  1. A heartbreaking yet an inspiring and a moving story, isn't it? I like Adunni a lot and she's one determined, courageous girl whom I feel we should all learn from her. Thank you for choosing this book and as always, I enjoyed our buddy reads! :)

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    1. This was a really good read. I'm glad we picked it! Thanks for reading it with me, Melody. :D

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  2. I used to read non fiction about these kinds of lives and it left me so mad that these attitudes are still around today, harming young girls and destroying their lives.

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    1. It really makes me angry, too! And it happens in so many countries around the world. It's both heartbreaking and frustrating, and I wish I knew how to change it.

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  3. This sounds sad but, I do want to read it - it's been on my list for a few months. Glad you posted about it.

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    1. It's a really good read, and not everything ends up being sad for Adunni, so that was good.

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  4. This sounds heartbreaking, but fascinating.

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    1. It is definitely both. Luckily, Adunni manages to get some happiness in her life, so it's not all sad.

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  5. Adunni sounds like such a brave and determined girl. It's heartbreaking that there are still places around the world that treat girls like this.

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  6. I'm still a sucker for good coming-of-age stories, and this one sounds promising. I don't seem to run into nearly as many coming-of-age novels about girls as I do boy either, so I'll take a long look at this one.

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    1. I thought it was very well written, and I liked seeing how life is in another country, and from this unforgettable character's POV.

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  7. These kinds of stories are always so sad.

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    1. They really are. But at least there was a kind of happy ending for the main character. :)

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  8. This one was reviewed last year on the short series the BBC did last year about books. I thought then that I should try it as it's very different to what I would usually read.

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    1. It's different from what I normally read, too. But it's a good one. I'd love to hear your thoughts on it. :)

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  9. I haven't heard of this one but it sounds very interesting. Thanks for the review, Lark.

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    1. It's a very compelling and powerful story. I really liked it. :)

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  10. Definitely a story about a culture that is different from what many of us are familiar with. The players but of women and girls in some parts of that world is horrifying. Fiction is a good way for us to understand these realities even when the story is not completely dark.

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    1. I love reading about other countries and other cultures, even when the stories I read make me sad, or angry. Because you're right, it's important for us to get another perspective and to know what's going on in other places. And at least this story wasn't completely sad. Adunni does get her chance at happiness.

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  11. I keep hearing about this book and would like to read it. Nigeria is in the news again because of kidnapped school girls. Such a sad situation there right now. We need more books like this to bring awareness to the forefront.

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    1. It is SO sad that more girls in Nigeria have been kidnapped. And what does the rest of the world do? Nada. It breaks my heart.

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  12. There is just so much here that makes me want to add this to my reading stack! Awesome title, beautiful cover and best of all thumbs up from both of you!

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    1. It's a really great read and tells such an important story of courage and hope.

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  13. Great review and discussion. I've wanted to read this book for a while now!

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    1. I ended up really loving Adunni. And her story is a very memorable one. :)

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